how to deal with problems

Problems are like a stepping stone of a staircase,
every problem is a new step of a staircase of the related problem
If a child fails in a subject , he had to work hard, to pass the subjects, or he had to change his study style or to change his study thoughts
Problems are like workshops
we had to experiment it with new thoughts, new researches, new knowledge collection,
Problems says that our way is not good, that will be our thought word action anything
we cannot change others, but we can change ourselves, if we cannot change ourselves, how we can change others,
Problems are the root of unhappiness, troubles, diseases, tension, accidents, carelessness
The peace of mind is the biggest thing in the world
So avoid all negative situations, people , words, thoughts,interests that lead to unhappiness
speak out the feelings related to a problem, related to that person, it will free our mind from so many burdens.
keeping thoughts related to a problem increase our problems, speaking about it release our minds burdens related to that problem.